The story of a “Meat-less” Soul
I dont believe in SOULMATE!
Gue ngga percaya sama yg namanya JODOH!
Yes, yes, condemn me to the death as i offend three-quarter (if not more) population of the world who put their souls into stake and quest for this enticing entity only to discover later that this entity was worthless than horse shit.
No, no i’m not on the curing period from a wrecked relationship, not at all. In fact i’m deeply in love now. But it makes my refusal even stronger upon this whole theory.
I dont believe that God makes one perfect person for everyone on earth.
I know you would bet that i’d use the disproportional gender distribution trend to justify my theory. But that’s even hard to substantiate.
I mean, you see how Chinese Government can’t put their hands to control the over-production of male babies. Now if you imagine in the future these babies travel around the world, the male population would catch up to their female counterpart. But again, i gotta remind you the ‘law of taste’ should apply here (no offense to all chinese male-kinds)
Okay, now back to the heart of my theory.
1. I believe that there are certain people that might be compatible with other type of people (male to male, male to female, female to female, you name it)
2. It is up to you to make your relationship work out. You can’t blame God or anyone if it doesn’t work. Remember "it takes two to tango" (ugh, cliche stuff but rings true)
3. The last thing is, i believe that God will bless you and your relationship no matter who you are with.
All my life, i’ve been taught that it is up to God to make a relationship work. Well, in real life many married couples who believe they are soulmates or jodoh end up in divorce. So, who are you gonna blame?
It’s easy to point your finger to God. But it’s not God’s fault, you idiot.
This is the pain in the ass part with many christians. No offense to christians, coz i am.
But they are just too lazy, asking God to deliver them their ‘one’ or ‘other half’ or ‘the rib’ and wait around. I mean HELLOO… God is not your delivery boy or your male maid.
And if things go wrong than she or he is not the one. Well, you can fix thing.
God blesses all of us with Power! Power to change things! Unbelievable Power you can never imagine! That’s how you believe in God! Not by sitting around, but MOVE!
All you have to do is just to move your weary poopy ass and Act some attitude!!!
Finally, one very important thing to nurture a healthy and life-long relationship is that both parties must realise the goal of their relationship. I’m not talking about making babies and big town-house by the shore. But it’s about growing up. Committing to each other that they will help their partner to grow up, understand life, God and thrive. Yes, thrive. Bring the best out of each other. Respect and faithfulness.
And the most important thing is… to love.
April 30th, 2005 at 4:08 am
It’s not shameful if one agreed with what you said,lemme just say to those who take God as their “delivery boy” (excuse me Lord) pleaseee open your eyes, heart and mind.
May 12th, 2005 at 12:22 am
Ok,let me say something here.. im not agreeing or disagreeing what you say about soulmate but to tell you the truth,i dont even know or understand what the fuck is soulmate means whether in scientific or historical explanation.. who made it up anyway? but i agree on what you said about having a relationship and take care of it without have to knowing is he/she’s your soulmate, coz deep inside your heart im sure you’ll know it eventually,isn’t it ?